Life Alignment Coaching

You might be discovering that the things that defined success for you aren't making you feel like they used to. Or that the life you've created no longer feels like your own.

You've done nothing wrong; it's simply time to realign.

I use my lived experience, extensive knowledge, and insight into the real challenges men face; helping them to reconnect who they are with what they do to create a meaningful and deeply satisfying life.

450+

Years of
Individual & Group Facilitation

Men Helped

Jacob Hokanson

From the get-go, the world we live in puts us in a neat little box. The walls reinforced by our parents, our community, our friends, our employers, our partners. The box fits for a time, but at some point, we outgrow it. The walls press in on us from every direction. Nothing feels right anymore. Nothing seems to shake that claustrophobic feeling. We know something has to change but we lack the tools to change it. I know this. I lived this. I found my tools. I can help you find yours.

Life Alignment Coach

"He blesses men with his presence, his truth, and his work."

- DG

”Jacob has great relational skills, kindness and understanding, but is tough when the moment calls for it too.”

- SA

"I really appreciate Jacob's deep listening.”

- SH

”Jacob is intelligent, open minded, and capable of expressing simply that which is complex by nature.”

- BT

”I am grateful for Jacob's honesty and emotional engagement.”

- JG

”His moral compass and personal integrity create an innate sense of trustworthiness.”

- FB

”He doesn't allow stereotypes or assumptions to influence how he deals with people.”

- GR

"Jacob has inspired me into profound change."

- RP

"I appreciate how expressive and clear his communication is."
- PM

"His humility, honesty, and innate friendliness makes it easy for me to share what's really going on."

- KS

“Cowboy up”, “men don’t cry”, “work first, play later”, that is what I was taught as a child. It’s how I tried to raise my kids. Avoid emotions, and they don’t get in the way, until they do. The way I was raised really began to affect my relationships, not only with my family, but coworkers as well.

I was introduced to Jacob through a mutual friend who told me that I was NOT fine, and she knew who could help. Jacob helped me realize that my outbursts and stubbornness were a product of me holding on to past trauma. I hate it when Jacob says, “why do you have hooks in that?”. He helped me to see how my reactions, and expecting everyone to be perfect all the time, was killing me emotionally. He has helped me “let go” of expectations and it affecting my relationships.

Thanks to Jacob, I have a relationship with my son now. My daughter and wife don’t avoid me anymore, and I am flourishing in my new supervisors roll at work. I cannot thank him enough!" - SP

Make your move

Can you feel the excitement of new possibilities?

Imagine stepping into a version of your life where you're not just going through the motions, but truly thriving. One where who you are and what you do are fully aligned.

Together we'll dismantle the false limiting beliefs that keep you feeling stuck, create a blueprint that helps you find purpose within and beyond career achievements, and reconnect you with your personal SPARK.

Is there any reason why you wouldn't want to get the clarity you've been seeking?